How is that possible?
It is a big misconception that just because you are around people you are connected.
When Christ said " For where two or three are gathered together unto my name, there am I in the midst of them. Matthew 18:20
He doesn't mean that just because you are in the same "church," you are gathered in His name.
Before Christ died he bound his disciples together unto himself. He laid claim to them through this act of sacrifice. It is a connection of the Spirit.
This connection is God-induced. Something that beyond the emotional and physical connection of your friends and family.
It is something to be in prayer for. That our meeting together would be in response to our connection and not our connection.